Bright John

It's true that many people fake their lives,   it's amazes me personally, to an extent that some fake their social relevance, relationship, financial status, self achievement, in most cases all just to please someone or to make other persons feel they have not arrived.

What is the Vibes you are talking about? You went to your uncle's house and you took pictures (I have no Problem with that, but when your intention is to mock that brother or that sister, it's wrong!)

Be Nice

Proverbs 11:10   When it goeth well with the righteous, the city rejoiceth: and when the wicked perish, there is shouting.

If I have been an assistant to you in any medium,  even without knowing you, we thank God. If I have not assisted you before, just understand that God is still raising and helping us.

Let it come to a point where people will know you for who you are (but if your character is bad, please don't project that, work on it).

You are special!

Be Nice to people not because they are nice to you but because that is your personality.

Why most people feel betrayed is because when they help people they fix their hope there, and when it happens lesser than their expectation their heart become broken.

Finally if you are fund of paying people evil for their good, repent.

Being Nice should be a culture not a feature.

Shalom

From Bright John

 

 One of the mistakes some ladies make is placing value only on their physical appearance and ignoring their spiritual capacity.

If you want to end up as a slay girl (unmarried) that's fine, but if you wish to end up as someone's Queen then your prayer life must be awake.

Dressing is good, I commend it for excellent and beautiful appreance but irrespective of that, add to your beauty  fire🔥 and have the fear of God.

I know we may see this to be irrelevant but the truth is that it will done on you when your children are spiritually Challenge or when your potential husband comes to a point where he is looking for someone to join hands with in Prayers.

I try my best to be honest enough in my writing. No responsible man will be happy if his wife can not call on God on his behalf in the days of family battles.

In Summary: The spiritual life of children is directly proportional to the spiritual growth of their mother.

I come in peace

From Bright John

 

One of the problems about our generation today is reaping where they have not sowed. This I know does not sound like the tasteful word we wish to hear. But please carefully follow the writing.

Truth be told what so ever you do come back to you in return, if you find delight in comforting others, you can't lack comfort,  to enjoy honour, honour others, to enjoy favour from others, be a giver.

Life is a Seed. Galatians 6:7b for what so ever a man soweth, that shall he also reap ( The challenge is we put our expectations on where we sow, that's why in most cases we get disappointed)

You can sow kindness

You can make up your mind to be an adviser to  the people around you.

💍Deep Matter!⛑️

Any Guy that gives you money( no matter the amount) that does not get good counsels from you regarding anything that concern his life or family...... 

1. Will not regard you 

2.Will always regret giving to you (he may not tell you nor express it) though he may continue giving but deep down he is not glad doing that.

Counseling is one secret and powerful thing that can bring attraction into a marital home.

Every Responsible Man Will Always Want To Marry A Woman That Can Counsel Him( irrespective of her educational status) 

I have often told Ladies, Your Husband To Be Is Around You.

Sir How? They often reply

He is among your friends, or a friend to your friends, among your Church members, among friends to your family members or your community.

In most cases understand that they have their own timing and reservations of when to get married.

Do you know why you are on pressure to get Married? Because its either by your character you have drove them away or you want them to stick to your own timing. And if for your timing, you were asked when you want to get Married, your response will be NOW!  But the guys don't work like that. They need to put somethings in place so that they can concentrate on their marriage when they finally enter into it.

Advise: Remember I told you every Guy has his own timing of when to get Married.

Note: Ladies While they wait for that period to come, they will carefully observe you.

We can't finish this lesson in one day, let me stop here.

Thank you for reading

I'm Bright John

 

There is a great hunger on earth for every humans to become certain things they have desired to be.

Moreso I write you this piece from a different angle, not just that you will become that thing you want to be but to tell you that it's 💯% possible for you to be that person you have dreamt to be.

 But honestly...

 It is base only on one condition, that you will seek the change your desires will require.

To become that positive personality you have always desired, seek for change daily, change in attitude, change in routines, change in speech, change in your way of thinking, give the discipline required.

Your greatest enemy to success is the mindset that does not look like your future.

I wish to say DREAM BIG this year but I won't accept you are ready to seek for the change your dreams will require.

Let me encourage someone, please don't give up on yourself, no matter how you feel. You don't have a supporter? It's not enough to write yourself off. 

If you are in this category, kindly inbox me. One advise for you to keep your hope alive and dream again.

If only you can dream it, you will become it.

Thank You!

I'm Bright John

 

 

 Everybody on earth has a weakness but the amazing thing is that our weaknesses are different. We are in a generation where everybody claim to be a superman, carrying their pride around, not willing to subject themselves to be ruled by the spirit, pretending they are fine where as Spiritually dead.

Men of the spirit have this understanding that's why a man like Apostle Paul in 1Corinthians 15:10  will say: But by the grace of God I am what I am.

In as much as the weakness of Mr. A is different from Mr. C 

I came to encourage us, don't give up, you can still be Use of God, you can still be fervent in spirit.

Therefore let's commit ourselves to watch out for any atom of weakness and work on them.

Your Constant reactions against the manifestation of your weakness is what kills  it potency.

Eg. If your weakness is smoking, react passionately when smokers come around you.

God will help us

2 Corinthians  13:9, Hebrews 6:1

Shalom!

 In Life it is good to be good. 

There are certain people that have deliberately lived their lives with the consciousness of being good.

What about you?

When was the last time you gave to someone not because they beg you but just because you observed they were in need?

How good are you?

Greeting only those that greet you? We need to give up such life.

Being good is giving someone a feeling of comfort, care, love, forgiveness and defense. Life becomes meaningful when someone is smiling because of you.

 This is leadership mindset.

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It's true that we may not be perfect, though walking towards perfection, but one of the things that befall ladies are their exhibition.  

Truth be told don't pretend!

I'm really going to take out time to talk to our ladies this year, because of the unhappiness it gives me when I see a lady who is due for marriage yet not married (not because she don't want to)

I will be revealing certain truth to our ladies from time to time, some of it will come from my stand point as a Guy, some from the stand point of spirituality, some from morals etc.

You are not married because you don't deserve it but the worst in you shows up at the wrong time. Remember try your best never to pretend!

So how is this possible?

If you have male friends around you as a lady or you are in relationship, do the best you can to project the good part of you.

You are caring, show it.

You are Industrious, show it.

You are God fearing, show it.

You are a giver, show it ( Secret: Nothing blows a man's mind like when a lady gives to him with respect, only guys will understand this feeling) 

You don't complain, show it.

You are Independent, show it.

You are clean, show it.

You pay your tithe,  show it.

What ever you do that is good show it.

Do you know why?

When you so display your good nature, a point will come that people will love you for who you are ( Including the Guys around you) even in your various relationship or as friends.

Then! Then!! Then!!!

The day that bad habit shows up (You know your habit na? 😒 or should I mention? 

Okay, like, Eating too much, not being able to say I'm sorry when wrong etc).

The day that bad habit shows up, he will pardon you and encourage you to build up and you know what? He will not walk out of your life as long as he sees your effort in building up.

Be determine!

May God help you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Have You Observed?

Have you observed  in the story of Nigeria Independence, how our landed fathers fought for the freedom of our country?

Have you observed, when people are talking about it, they never mentioned things like, what if Rapture took place before the war, but freedom was their focus?

Now is up to you, why will you stop thinking about your freedom, many people are still in mental slavery, financial slavery etc, not just Ignorance but no desire. My heart 💘 was stirred in pain when I remember the ultimate bondage of many.

Friends now it's time to think about your freedom (in Christ), you have to come out of the slavery of the devil and accept Jesus as your Lord and Saviour. That's where you get the ultimate freedom, no other way!

You may not like or share this gospel but I know you need Him.

Even without your Indications, with seriousness in your heart, pray this prayer with me.

Lord Jesus, I come before you today as a sinner, forgive me of my sin, I believe in my heart that you die to save me and I confess with my mouth that you are the Lord of my life, I received eternal life. Thank you father for saving me, I'm now born again.

If You made that prayer congratulations, you are welcome into the family of God.

ADVICE:

> Locate a bible believing church around and  fellowship with them.

> Join a unit and serve God through that medium

> Check your group of friends, are they influencing you positively or negatively, if negatively CHANGE THEM.

From Bright John

One of the unwise thing people do is being hurt 🤕 from inside and confessing forgiveness with pretence. Obviously, it's unimaginable. Sometimes you will hear people say, I don't have issues forgiving but deep inside, the feeling is something else. 

I have learnt a lesson from the attitude of someone around me who was in  pains of the heart(what we call  emotional trauma) confessing forgiveness but could not let go. That's exactly what most people do, so I had to extract this self advice. 

Beloved, Let's take caution, I know it's hurting but try your best to LET GO when you forgive. Jesus gave us an advice to forgive 70x... Which means we should try the best we can to forgive always. 

 Two Things Unforgiveness Does To A Person.

1. It makes one sick 

2. It blocks your answers to prayers.

It may have kept you panicking because that offence came from someone you least expected, I understand it looks difficult but I Pray for you the grace to forgive and let go easily receive it now in the name of Jesus. 

There's greatness in you

See you at the top

Thank you for reading, enjoy a blissful day

 From Bright John

 In life, there is a tendency you can just be liked, and also be hated without hurting another.

Most times there's actually something about people you like naturally.

Sometimes we may feel belittled or embarrass to go extreme for someone we like not necessarily until you have emotional connections ( by being in relationship) I mean expressing your likeness to anybody, it could be that old papa that greet you, it could be that handsome guy, it could be that woman that add extra to the stuff you buy,  it could be that young lady that has good morals.

Four Things You Can Do To Anybody You Like.

1. Encourage them

2. Give (Irrespective of what you give)

3. Pray for them

4. Let them know you like them.

Most times, it is pride that keeps people in pretence over a person they like.

A brief story of a young man I met. I just like him,  I told him, "look Joshua I just like you" before I left him I prayed for him, encourage him that things will get better and I gave him some money which I was with at that moment and I left. Little did I know that I  have saved a life with something I counted as nothing. 

Joshua after some time reach out to me just to say thank you for the day I met him, telling me how he felt like giving up and a lot more. Wow 😮  to my amazement I exclaimed, I was bemused.

So friends do the best you can to express the like you have for someone, don't be like that proud person that will say I don't care even if I like him or not.

 I look forward to hear that someone feels encouraged about life, just because you like him or her and you carry out the four things I listed above.

Thank you, do have a wonderful day

From Bright John

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

In Spiritual methodology, from biblical stand point, there's  what is called the Law of first Mention. The law of first Mention state  the implications, meaning and expression given to a word at where it was mentioned first. That meaning or impression can be used to interpret any other reflection of that same word or phase.

(Now  I have established this)

The first time the word cock crow was mentioned in the whole Bible was In Matthew 26: 34 and it's says 

Jesus said unto him, verily I say unto thee, that this night, before the cock crows, thou shalt deny me thrice.

(Forgive me and just follow me, I'm a teacher of God's word so I have to break my point, to the way everyone here will understand, don't forget we reason differently)

Okay! Following the movement of Jesus in various places, it's began in Caiaphas the place of the high priest Matt 26:3, then He move to Bethany the house of Simon the laper. Matt 26:6, then move to Galilee Matt 26:32, then Jesus move to Gethsemane Matt 26:36, then finally they led him back to Caiaphas the high priest place.

 ANSWER: THE COCK THAT CROW TO CONFIRM PETER DENIAL WAS OWN BY THE PRIEST  Matthew 26:58.

Thank you

I'm Bright John

I Have often said nobody is empty, there's something inside of you that nobody knows about. 

The challenge most of the times is our inability to discover what is inside of us and the lack of human networking to promote that which you have Discovered

But irrespective of the lack of human assistance you feel you have, keep discovering, and keep developing what God has put in you.

Most of us are Born Business men and women, most of us are divinely anointed preachers, some of us politicians, some Academia, some  engineers, some musician, some computer analyst, some born counsellors and some medical doctor etc. 

We all have our place in destiny, no more settling, let's pursue, inputting the energy it takes, pray the prayers you ought to, do the studies you should, write down the writting demanded, make the calls necessary and cultivate the discipline to meditate on your dreams.

Sucess is real, but it is acquired by principles, I'm looking forward to when someone through this platform will tell me, I am good in business, good in music etc. can we do a train here.

let pursue our dreams even as we develop the hunger to know God more.

I'm Bright John 

Have A Destiny thinking Day