It's true that we may not be perfect, though walking towards perfection, but one of the things that befall ladies are their exhibition.  

Truth be told don't pretend!

I'm really going to take out time to talk to our ladies this year, because of the unhappiness it gives me when I see a lady who is due for marriage yet not married (not because she don't want to)

I will be revealing certain truth to our ladies from time to time, some of it will come from my stand point as a Guy, some from the stand point of spirituality, some from morals etc.

You are not married because you don't deserve it but the worst in you shows up at the wrong time. Remember try your best never to pretend!

So how is this possible?

If you have male friends around you as a lady or you are in relationship, do the best you can to project the good part of you.

You are caring, show it.

You are Industrious, show it.

You are God fearing, show it.

You are a giver, show it ( Secret: Nothing blows a man's mind like when a lady gives to him with respect, only guys will understand this feeling) 

You don't complain, show it.

You are Independent, show it.

You are clean, show it.

You pay your tithe,  show it.

What ever you do that is good show it.

Do you know why?

When you so display your good nature, a point will come that people will love you for who you are ( Including the Guys around you) even in your various relationship or as friends.

Then! Then!! Then!!!

The day that bad habit shows up (You know your habit na? 😒 or should I mention? 

Okay, like, Eating too much, not being able to say I'm sorry when wrong etc).

The day that bad habit shows up, he will pardon you and encourage you to build up and you know what? He will not walk out of your life as long as he sees your effort in building up.

Be determine!

May God help you.