Bright John

It's true that many people fake their lives,   it's amazes me personally, to an extent that some fake their social relevance, relationship, financial status, self achievement, in most cases all just to please someone or to make other persons feel they have not arrived.

What is the Vibes you are talking about? You went to your uncle's house and you took pictures (I have no Problem with that, but when your intention is to mock that brother or that sister, it's wrong!)

Be Nice

Proverbs 11:10   When it goeth well with the righteous, the city rejoiceth: and when the wicked perish, there is shouting.

If I have been an assistant to you in any medium,  even without knowing you, we thank God. If I have not assisted you before, just understand that God is still raising and helping us.

Let it come to a point where people will know you for who you are (but if your character is bad, please don't project that, work on it).

You are special!

Be Nice to people not because they are nice to you but because that is your personality.

Why most people feel betrayed is because when they help people they fix their hope there, and when it happens lesser than their expectation their heart become broken.

Finally if you are fund of paying people evil for their good, repent.

Being Nice should be a culture not a feature.

Shalom

From Bright John

 

 One of the mistakes some ladies make is placing value only on their physical appearance and ignoring their spiritual capacity.

If you want to end up as a slay girl (unmarried) that's fine, but if you wish to end up as someone's Queen then your prayer life must be awake.

Dressing is good, I commend it for excellent and beautiful appreance but irrespective of that, add to your beauty  fire🔥 and have the fear of God.

I know we may see this to be irrelevant but the truth is that it will done on you when your children are spiritually Challenge or when your potential husband comes to a point where he is looking for someone to join hands with in Prayers.

I try my best to be honest enough in my writing. No responsible man will be happy if his wife can not call on God on his behalf in the days of family battles.

In Summary: The spiritual life of children is directly proportional to the spiritual growth of their mother.

I come in peace

From Bright John

 

One of the problems about our generation today is reaping where they have not sowed. This I know does not sound like the tasteful word we wish to hear. But please carefully follow the writing.

Truth be told what so ever you do come back to you in return, if you find delight in comforting others, you can't lack comfort,  to enjoy honour, honour others, to enjoy favour from others, be a giver.

Life is a Seed. Galatians 6:7b for what so ever a man soweth, that shall he also reap ( The challenge is we put our expectations on where we sow, that's why in most cases we get disappointed)

You can sow kindness

You can make up your mind to be an adviser to  the people around you.

💍Deep Matter!⛑️

Any Guy that gives you money( no matter the amount) that does not get good counsels from you regarding anything that concern his life or family...... 

1. Will not regard you 

2.Will always regret giving to you (he may not tell you nor express it) though he may continue giving but deep down he is not glad doing that.

Counseling is one secret and powerful thing that can bring attraction into a marital home.

Every Responsible Man Will Always Want To Marry A Woman That Can Counsel Him( irrespective of her educational status) 

I have often told Ladies, Your Husband To Be Is Around You.

Sir How? They often reply

He is among your friends, or a friend to your friends, among your Church members, among friends to your family members or your community.

In most cases understand that they have their own timing and reservations of when to get married.

Do you know why you are on pressure to get Married? Because its either by your character you have drove them away or you want them to stick to your own timing. And if for your timing, you were asked when you want to get Married, your response will be NOW!  But the guys don't work like that. They need to put somethings in place so that they can concentrate on their marriage when they finally enter into it.

Advise: Remember I told you every Guy has his own timing of when to get Married.

Note: Ladies While they wait for that period to come, they will carefully observe you.

We can't finish this lesson in one day, let me stop here.

Thank you for reading

I'm Bright John

 

There is a great hunger on earth for every humans to become certain things they have desired to be.

Moreso I write you this piece from a different angle, not just that you will become that thing you want to be but to tell you that it's 💯% possible for you to be that person you have dreamt to be.

 But honestly...

 It is base only on one condition, that you will seek the change your desires will require.

To become that positive personality you have always desired, seek for change daily, change in attitude, change in routines, change in speech, change in your way of thinking, give the discipline required.

Your greatest enemy to success is the mindset that does not look like your future.

I wish to say DREAM BIG this year but I won't accept you are ready to seek for the change your dreams will require.

Let me encourage someone, please don't give up on yourself, no matter how you feel. You don't have a supporter? It's not enough to write yourself off. 

If you are in this category, kindly inbox me. One advise for you to keep your hope alive and dream again.

If only you can dream it, you will become it.

Thank You!

I'm Bright John

 

 

 Everybody on earth has a weakness but the amazing thing is that our weaknesses are different. We are in a generation where everybody claim to be a superman, carrying their pride around, not willing to subject themselves to be ruled by the spirit, pretending they are fine where as Spiritually dead.

Men of the spirit have this understanding that's why a man like Apostle Paul in 1Corinthians 15:10  will say: But by the grace of God I am what I am.

In as much as the weakness of Mr. A is different from Mr. C 

I came to encourage us, don't give up, you can still be Use of God, you can still be fervent in spirit.

Therefore let's commit ourselves to watch out for any atom of weakness and work on them.

Your Constant reactions against the manifestation of your weakness is what kills  it potency.

Eg. If your weakness is smoking, react passionately when smokers come around you.

God will help us

2 Corinthians  13:9, Hebrews 6:1

Shalom!

 In Life it is good to be good. 

There are certain people that have deliberately lived their lives with the consciousness of being good.

What about you?

When was the last time you gave to someone not because they beg you but just because you observed they were in need?

How good are you?

Greeting only those that greet you? We need to give up such life.

Being good is giving someone a feeling of comfort, care, love, forgiveness and defense. Life becomes meaningful when someone is smiling because of you.

 This is leadership mindset.

#Bright John

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It's true that we may not be perfect, though walking towards perfection, but one of the things that befall ladies are their exhibition.  

Truth be told don't pretend!

I'm really going to take out time to talk to our ladies this year, because of the unhappiness it gives me when I see a lady who is due for marriage yet not married (not because she don't want to)

I will be revealing certain truth to our ladies from time to time, some of it will come from my stand point as a Guy, some from the stand point of spirituality, some from morals etc.

You are not married because you don't deserve it but the worst in you shows up at the wrong time. Remember try your best never to pretend!

So how is this possible?

If you have male friends around you as a lady or you are in relationship, do the best you can to project the good part of you.

You are caring, show it.

You are Industrious, show it.

You are God fearing, show it.

You are a giver, show it ( Secret: Nothing blows a man's mind like when a lady gives to him with respect, only guys will understand this feeling) 

You don't complain, show it.

You are Independent, show it.

You are clean, show it.

You pay your tithe,  show it.

What ever you do that is good show it.

Do you know why?

When you so display your good nature, a point will come that people will love you for who you are ( Including the Guys around you) even in your various relationship or as friends.

Then! Then!! Then!!!

The day that bad habit shows up (You know your habit na? 😒 or should I mention? 

Okay, like, Eating too much, not being able to say I'm sorry when wrong etc).

The day that bad habit shows up, he will pardon you and encourage you to build up and you know what? He will not walk out of your life as long as he sees your effort in building up.

Be determine!

May God help you.